Fix BitvSet union_with and symmetric_difference_with

Updates the other_op function shared by the union/intersect/difference/symmetric_difference -with functions to fix an issue where certain elements would not be present in the result. To fix this, when other op is called, we resize self's nbits to account for any new elements that may be added to the set.

Example:
```rust
	let mut a = BitvSet::new();
	let mut b = BitvSet::new();
	a.insert(0);
	b.insert(5);
	a.union_with(&b);
	println!("{}", a); //Prints "{0}" instead of "{0, 5}"
```
It means the into_bitv->from_bitv dance is expensive though, right? Otherwise it's literally a noop, which makes deprecating get_mut reasonable.