adding in owner/group, backup attributes to match what was being done in the recipe previously
making sure proper template is used, and that the result has the name we expect
changing template names to match
does not reload apache unless the site is placed in "sites-enabled", and there is no reason to otherwise.
taking care of default enabled 000-default
dont worry about disabling default site that comes with apache, just delete it in favor of our own default.conf
specify no backups for file deletions
adding conf-* directories and a2*conf scripts. removing file deletions in favor of deleting whole directories