SPARK-3526 Add section about data locality to the tuning guide

cc @kayousterhout

I have a few outstanding questions from compiling this documentation:
- What's the difference between NO_PREF and ANY?  I understand the implications of the ordering but don't know what an example of each would be
- Why is NO_PREF ahead of RACK_LOCAL?  I would think it'd be better to schedule rack-local tasks ahead of no preference if you could only do one or the other.  Is the idea to wait longer and hope for the rack-local tasks to turn into node-local or better?
- Will there be a datacenter-local locality level in the future?  Apache Cassandra for example has this level
Here I would link to the configuration page instead of enumerating the configs here. We try not to have two copies of things like this in the docs or else people could forget to update this.