deps: update openssl to 1.0.1j
test: fix test-crypto-stream

Because of constant-timeness change made in openssl-1.0.1j the error is
no longer returned from EVP_DecryptFinal_ex. Now it just return 0, and
thus the error message does not contain proper error code. Adapt to this
change, there is not much that we could do about it.
build: revert change to disable ssl2 and ssl3
crypto: allow runtime opt in using SSLv2/SSLv3

This change disables SSLv2/SSLv3 use by default, and introduces a
command line flag to opt into using SSLv2/SSLv3.

SSLv2 and SSLv3 are considered unsafe, and should only be used in
situations where compatibility with other components is required and
they cannot be upgrade to support newer forms of TLS.