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Wow that's pretty strange, but yeah fair enough.

Thinking more about it, I do have another suggestion about how to structure the active fetchers cache. Let me know if this sounds cleaner to you:
- Abstract the current logic in this block out so we can just see something like:
```go
} else if !d.fetcherIsAlive(claimTok) {
    go d.cleanStrandedClaims(claimTok)
}
```
- Consider using some kind of TTL cache for the active fetchers (that does not extend TTL on a Get), on a cache miss check the DB and populate that token in the cache if we found it. Seems like this would collapse the two functions to build and update the cache into one. Doesn't seem like we really need to pre-warm the cache since we expect the number of active fetchers to be a low number. Regarding the TTL cache, I'm not sure if there's something out there that meets our needs, if there isn't then you could probably leave it roughly like you already have it