[hashmap] Adds `drain`: a way to sneak out the elements while clearing a map.

It is useful to move all the elements out of a hashmap without deallocating
the underlying buffer. It came up in IRC, and this patch implements it as
`drain`.

r? @Gankro
cc: @frankmcsherry
Yes, they used to be called Set\* because they were in the same module as the Map ones, but now they're not, so they can all be renamed.