Assembler lib

These changes in short separate the global assembler (`VectorMatrixAssembler`) from the local assembler types (almost) and add a possibility to provide a specific local assembler for each element or element type.
A simple usage is shown in the tests (last commit), though very simplistic.

I'm open for name suggestion for the `SimpleAssembler`.
can you rename the class name to something more specific? LocalAssemblerData sounds it is a general class. but actually it is specific to this test.