Ban time incr

New feature "automatically exponential increasing ban time".
WARNING: by first start the server upgrades sqlite database (table "bans" will recreated with another schema);
Option "bantime.increment" in jail.conf allows to use database for searching of previously banned ip's to increase a default ban time using special formula, by default each next ban increase banTime * 1, 2, 4, 8, 16, 32...
see "jail.conf" for some other options of "bantime.___";
additional we can configure a little randomization of ban time, to prevent "clever" botnets calculate exact time IP can be unbanned.

this is an ideal candidate for a unit-test excercising
- empty container
- container with 1 entry
- container with multiple hits for the target date
I also wonder if no evil would happen (probably not) if underlying container changes (at least grows) during the execution here