Super softtakeover

This introduces soft takeover for the super knob effect parameter connection. 
The super knob jumps to the current value of the linked parameter on effect load. 
https://bugs.launchpad.net/mixxx/+bug/1329063
https://bugs.launchpad.net/mixxx/+bug/1335355

It also includes some soft takeover refactoring 
do you mean, "This does nothing on a control that already has soft-takeover enabled."?