Add an additional 'initiator' option to shareiscsi
that is only available for LIO.
Misc iSCSI fixes/cleanups/attempts to get 'zfs rename' to work.

!! Doesn't - a 'zfs rename' works, but most often than not, the rename
!! IOCTL hangs. Not every time and not always on the first dataset being
!! renamed... Seems a little to random to me.