Match configure options from release packages

- add missing -plugin-sql-mysql on Windows and Mac
- add missing -dbus on Mac
- add missing -no-libudev on Linux
- remove unused -no-pkg-config on Mac

Change-Id: I9f20ec421ff02e1d4b6edfed64544156e438aec4
Reviewed-by: Iikka Eklund <iikka.eklund@digia.com>
Reviewed-by: Simo Fält <simo.falt@digia.com>