gralloc: Let gralloc_priv.h be overloaded by device trees

Adjustments to private_handle_t may be necessary for device-specific
blob compatibility, so don't enforce usage of the local header

Change-Id: I588ca59ed76b1a063a4b663ac2c98589865b7738
gralloc: Allow legacy devices to use PMEM for ADSP (camera).

Partially bring back PMEM support for legacy devices having proprietary camera
libraries stuck in PMEM. This change allows these devices to continue using
PMEM for the camera, and ION for everything else.

Change-Id: Idc0a72190e61ecf73994dec2f7cbd786d6039ae4