fix(deisctl): "deisctl scale router=N" also starts units

This change fixes logic in `Destroy` to poll until `cAPI.UnitStates()` no longer contains the requested unit, and adds similar logic to `Create` to poll until the unit has a state. This allows both functions to be truly synchronous, which made chaining `Create` and `Start` together in `Scale` trivial.

The side effect is that `deisctl [un]install platform` is a bit slower, but now it is using actual states instead of planned ones.

Closes #2075, #2168. ping @tobyhede.

```console
$ time deisctl scale router=3 && time deisctl scale router=0
deis-router@1.service: loaded                                 
deis-router@2.service: loaded                                 
deis-router@3.service: loaded                                 
deis-router@1.service: active/running                                 
deis-router@3.service: active/running                                 
deis-router@2.service: active/running                                 

real	0m8.152s
user	0m0.072s
sys	0m0.023s
deis-router@3.service: destroyed                                 
deis-router@1.service: destroyed                                 
deis-router@2.service: destroyed                                 

real	0m4.996s
user	0m0.065s
sys	0m0.018s
```