[SPARK-3695]shuffle fetch fail output

should output detailed host and port in error message

Author: Daoyuan Wang <daoyuan.wang@intel.com>

Closes #2539 from adrian-wang/fetchfail and squashes the following commits:

6c1b1e0 [Daoyuan Wang] shuffle fetch fail output
[SPARK-3476] Remove outdated memory checks in Yarn

See description in [JIRA](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/SPARK-3476).

Author: Andrew Or <andrewor14@gmail.com>

Closes #2528 from andrewor14/yarn-memory-checks and squashes the following commits:

c5400cd [Andrew Or] Simplify checks
e30ffac [Andrew Or] Remove outdated memory checks
[SPARK-3531][SQL]select null from table would throw a MatchError

Author: Daoyuan Wang <daoyuan.wang@intel.com>

Closes #2396 from adrian-wang/selectnull and squashes the following commits:

2458229 [Daoyuan Wang] rebase solution