Have .dockerignore support Dockerfile/.dockerignore

If .dockerignore mentions either then the client will send them to the
daemon but the daemon will erase them after the Dockerfile has been parsed
to simulate them never being sent in the first place.

Closes #8330

Signed-off-by: Doug Davis <dug@us.ibm.com>
note, per vbatts suggestion, I renamed Excludes to ExcludesPatterns - which is why this diff shows up.