+str #15079 Add flexible merge

Still only a prototype, but would be great with a round of feedback for tomorrow's work.

I tried the "return next behavior" approach (see savepoint1 if you are interested), but that was a dead end. We want to allow return of behavior with new input and output types, e.g. Zip, and I couldn't get that to work without explosion of types. Reverted back to become.

// cc @drewhk @sirthias 
Do we want function with 3 params, doesn't that create tuples?
I find it easier to attach documentation to methods, such as `onInput`.
I was also hoping that current signatures would work for java (but we could of course bridge).

I'll try putting State into MergeObject.