Port Matthieu's code formalizing pushouts

This code will (hopefully) allow the epi -> surj in set_cat proof to go
through without hacks and without universe inconsistencies in trunk.

The formalization is a bit slow (at 9s)...

I'm also not entirely happy with the proofs.

I think this needs at least one, maybe two pairs of eyes, other than my own and Matthieu's.
This is usually called [bang], "!".