exiftool 9.14
Use fatal DSL method in requirements
autopano-sift-c: fix :build tag
portmidi: Version 217, Java & Python optional.

- with-python: Proper Python bindings that ship with portmidi
- Fixes CMAKE_OSX_SYSROOT location

Note, JAVA SDK has to be installed separately on Macs,
therefore: opt-in!

Closes #16577.

Signed-off-by: Adam Vandenberg <flangy@gmail.com>
mutt: make thread/sidebar patches mutually exclusive

Fixes #16461.
Closes #17182.

Signed-off-by: Adam Vandenberg <flangy@gmail.com>