Unified handling of InputOutputArrays in Python wrapper generator

This makes arguments of type InputOutputArray required in python unless they
have a default value in C++.

As result following python functions changes signatures in non-trivial way:

* calcOpticalFlowFarneback
* calcOpticalFlowPyrLK
* calibrateCamera
* findContours
* findTransformECC
* floodFill
* kmeans
* PCACompute
* stereoCalibrate

And the following functions become return their modified inputs as a return
value:

* accumulate
* accumulateProduct
* accumulateSquare
* accumulateWeighted
* circle
* completeSymm
* cornerSubPix
* drawChessboardCorners
* drawContours
* drawDataMatrixCodes
* ellipse
* fillConvexPoly
* fillPoly
* filterSpeckles
* grabCut
* insertChannel
* line
* patchNaNs
* polylines
* randn
* randShuffle
* randu
* rectangle
* setIdentity
* updateMotionHistory
* validateDisparity
* watershed