Hopefully fix the windows build to grovel time structures correctly.

It is a little misleading to say "correctly" since struct timespec
doesn't really exist on windows. Groveling the definition that we
define in our own pthreads wrapper seems the most consistent choice.

The grovel-headers.c changes have only been tested in isolation, not
with a real build. Thanks to Kyle Isom for testing, any resulting
build problems are entirely my fault.