do not validate dup_check fields on save

Summary:
Do not validate dup_check fields, and handle object id
conversion errors gracefully when the field is dup_check false

Test Plan:
Ran my migration script, didnt see errors
ran unit tests

Reviewers: adam, david, bill, ian

Reviewed By: adam

CC: bill

Maniphest Tasks: T7411

Differential Revision: http://phab.wish.com/D14196