matroskaenc: add codec_tag lists back.

This reverts 312645e :
"Do not set codec_tag property for matroska muxers."

Also adds dummy codec_tag lists with codecs
supported in mkv but not in wav / avi.

Fixes ticket #2169.
(cherry picked from commit df39c3ce385c02cbd8046298578ea7454c0a0f81)

Conflicts:
	libavformat/matroskaenc.c
ffmpeg: dont allow -flags to override -pass

Fixes Ticket2154

Signed-off-by: Michael Niedermayer <michaelni@gmx.at>
(cherry picked from commit ccf9dd00da055e94117b56cead4af80ff331b00e)

Conflicts:
	ffmpeg_opt.c