Fix AMI redirect action with two channels failing to redirect both channels.

The AMI redirect action can fail to redirect two channels that are bridged
together.  There is a race between the AMI thread redirecting the two
channels and the bridge thread noticing that a channel is hungup from the
redirects.

* Made the bridge wait for both channels to be redirected before exiting.

* Made the AMI redirect check that all required headers are present before
proceeding with the redirection.

* Made the AMI redirect require that any supplied ExtraChannel exist
before proceeding.  Previously the code fell back to a single channel
redirect operation.

(closes issue ASTERISK-18975)
Reported by: Ben Klang

(closes issue ASTERISK-19948)
Reported by: Brent Dalgleish
Patches:
      jira_asterisk_19948_v11.patch (license #5621) patch uploaded by rmudgett
Tested by: rmudgett, Thomas Sevestre, Deepak Lohani, Kayode

Review: https://reviewboard.asterisk.org/r/2243/
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