upgrade to resteasy 3.0.4 and fix compile errors
move DELETE handling to QueueResource
move DELETE handling to TopicResource
adapt to RestEasy 3’s new behavior for getMatchedURIs()

It seems getMatchedURIs() in RestEasy 2 was buggy,
and the indexes used in these classes compensated for it in a way that breaks with RestEasy 3.
resteasy’s JAXB reader now requires ResteasyProviderFactory’s contextualData
use appropriate netty dependency
use appropriate jms spec dependency version
use the `rest` example module as the parent

* this works nicer with maven’s assumption that the relative path is `../`
* this also allows us to remove the specification of the groupId, as it is inherited
fix references to getLocationLink()

(renamed in Resteasy 3 from getLocation() to getLocationLink() )
release connections after each request

(see commit 6104bf8 )
Merge pull request #1412 from mattdrees/make-compatible-with-resteasy-3

Make compatible with resteasy 3