MT#3435 fix tests

all selenium tests are working locally with selenium 2.31.0 and
phantomjs 1.9.1 and an empty db-schema dump

particular fixes:
- skip some tests, when no domain is yet created
- select_if_unselected to prevent unselecting preselected checkboxes
- increase some waiting times to fix races with ajax calls
MT#3435 separate stdout/stderr of panel debug

because, they are merged incorrectly
MT#3435 skip problematic tests

A problem with the selenium installation on our jenkins seems
to be, that sometimes a page is loaded twice, which for example
deletes an item twice, which results in an error message in the
panel. For now, lets mark the tests which fail on that reason optional.
MT#3435 quickfixes for tests

* mysql user sipwise@localhost
* selenium wait timeout 10 seconds
* dont use title (because it does not wait for the page to be loaded)