Add helper for diff line stats

This adds a `git_diff_patch_line_stats()` API that gets the total
number of adds, deletes, and context lines in a patch.  This will
make it a little easier to emulate `git diff --stat` and the like.

Right now, this relies on generating the `git_diff_patch` object,
which is a pretty heavyweight way to get stat information.  At
some future point, it would probably be nice to be able to get
this information without allocating the entire `git_diff_patch`,
but that's a much larger project.
Free buffer at end of test
Let people know that the ML is deprecated
Merge pull request #1297 from arrbee/diff-patch-line-totals

Add helper API for diff line stats from patch