Fixing broken examples (SXSW still broke)

* update flowplayer to 3.2.16
* make JSON and XML examples work without `feed` qs value
* update jwplayer to 6.6
Removing SXSW example. SlideShowPro has issues that break it.
updating readme to remove sxsw mention
changing readme to markdown
tweaking md
structure refactor. base of an index page
starting to give flash example some love
strobe wireup
polish for flash example
Tying up loose ends
Adding link to Adobe Strobe in README
Final touches to push to master