Upgraded embedded Derby support to 10.6+ and build to 10.10

Issue: SPR-10469
Polishing

Issue: SPR-10469
ResourceDatabasePopulator's setScripts takes varargs
Introduce AbstractMockMvcBuilder class

This change splits out an abstract base class from DefaultMockMvcBuilder
with StandaloneMockMvcBuilder switching to extend the new abstract class
(rather than DefaultMockMvcBuilder).

Issue: SPR-11238
Introduce StompReactorNettyTcpClient

Issue: SPR-11153
Add client login/passcode to broker relay

Issue: SPR-11154