[HORNETQ-1103] Upgrade Netty to fix SSL race. Also maximal wait 30 seconds for the handshake to complete
Merge pull request #754 from normanmaurer/EAP_ssl_fix

[HORNETQ-1103] Upgrade Netty to fix SSL race. Also maximal wait 30 secon...
https://issues.jboss.org/browse/HORNETQ-1108 Regular messages becoming large through the bridge will be damaged