Fix ssl-linking/dependencies-issues on rhel distros.

-configure,
Making sure that the openssl098e-compatibility-package is installed
on rhel-distros before building.

-Makefile.in
Making sure libssl/libcrypto is linked to the libs provided by the
openssl098e-compatibility-package instead of bundling them with
spotify-make.

Also fixing issue when ldconfig -p returns more than one lib.
The "ldconfig -p" could actually return multiple libraries, like on rhel
when looking up possible references to libplc4.so it returns,
- libplc4.so (libc6,x86-64) => /lib64/libplc4.so
- libplc4.so (libc6,x86-64) => /usr/lib64/libplc4.so

Add -m1 option to egrep to make sure that only the first reference is
used for linkage.