synchronizes pendingVolatiles

Called from isVolatile, which is called from isStable, which is a part
of the public reflection API.
synchronizes names

Previously we didn't have all possible name creation facilities covered
with locks, so some of them silently misbehaved and caused much grief:
http://groups.google.com/group/scala-internals/browse_thread/thread/ec1d3e2c4bcb000a.

This patch gets all the name factories under control. Unfortunately it
comes at a performance cost, which has to be evaluated.
removes the assertion in missingHook

In the current synchronization scheme multiple threads can enter the
missingHook trying to materialize a package, which hasn't been created.

That's fine, because makeScalaPackage, which creates and enters package
symbols is synchronized and checks whether the creation is necessary
before commencing. Therefore even if makeScalaPackage is called multiple
times in rapid succession, the calls will be serialized and all calls
except the first one won't do anything.
runtime reflection: death from thousand threads

not anymore