remove AR auto-explain (config.auto_explain_threshold_in_seconds)

We discussed that the auto explain feature is rarely used.
This PR removes only the automatic explain. You can still display
the explain output for any given relation using `ActiveRecord::Relation#explain`.

As a side-effect this should also fix the connection problem during
asset compilation (#9385). The auto explain initializer in the `ActiveRecord::Railtie`
forced a connection.
Merge pull request #9400 from senny/remove_auto_explain_threshold_in_seconds

remove config.auto_explain_threshold_in_seconds