ISPN-3300 PutForExternalRead doesn't supress exceptions with TotalOrder

* the test is throwing an exception for the put() operation but the transaction
manager is supressing it when synchronization is used.

* Besides that, PFER is working ok.
ISPN-3692 Remove contention on statistics collection in CacheMgmtInterceptor
ISPN-3693 ActivationInterceptor on get always deletes store contents

* Changed interceptor to only activate when value is not in context
* Also don't activate if we didn't find a value
ISPN-3633 InvalidateL1Command during ST should not cancel writing the
entry by ST

* Fixed tx issues with state transfer when occurs between 2PC
* Added tests to verify proper behavior with L1 and without
ISPN-3700 ReadableGridFileChannel#read cycles with certain file size and chunk size
Remove duplicated code from ReadableGridFileChannel and WritableGridFileChannel (delegate to GridInput/OutputStream instead)
ISPN-3665 SingleFileStore is not thread-safe for passivation

* Make FileEntry immutable to fix issues with free() deleting an entry and
  write() reusing the FileEntry instance while _load() is still reading
  from it.
* Add a global read-write lock to fix an issue where write()/free() could
  write past the end of the file when a clear() happened in parallel.
  This would create an invalid file with a lot of zeroes.
* Delete duplicate test
ISPN-3698 Instantiate default marshaller on every start() call

* This avoids having marshaller instances lingering around after a
cache manager has been stopped which could be left in an unusable
state.
ISPN-3531 LifecycleManager of query module inadvertently unregisters MBeans belonging to other cache managers

Add cache manager name as an attribute of the query related ObjectNames (for disambiguation) and fix affected tests.
ISPN-3354 Multiple events on the local node with Infinispan 5.3.0-final

Also, I fixed a bug taht could cause inconsistent data in replicated
mode and added tests for that.