Possible deadlock fix.

Two actors sending each-other synchronous messages
may deadlock. Break the cycle by making one of them
async.

The cycle is:

* a classPrepare event is fired, and listeners are
  notified
* a breakpoint is deleted, and the breakpoint support
  actor de-registers from load events.

I couldn't write a test to exercise this scenario,
but I think it's worth discussing and see if we can
ship it as is.

Fixed #1001512(cherry picked from commit 90efc79dd53a90c905dd28c929733182e425de50)