Updated start scripts. Fixed issue #364

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Added lock to prevent startup issues in logger context selection. Fixed scope sibling issue wherein the main application level handler was having its service call flag turned off by child scopes. Adjusted conn.equals / hashCode generation.

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Merge branch 'bbb-red5-r4592' into upgrade-to-r4599