JBIDE-14616: remove parent.relativePath

* To avoid issue with sync of local parent & remote (Nexus) parent
* Make local build behave more like CI build
JBIDE-13959 incorrect negation when removing deployment scanners on stop
JBIDE-14626 show-in issue
JBIDE-13485 - poller, denuglistener, restart action massacre

 JBIDE-13485 wild sysouts left in the patch

JBIDE-13485 wild sysouts left in the patch