<rdar://problem/13479539> Simplify ModuleManager/GlobalModuleIndex interaction to eliminate a pile of extraneous stats().

The refactoring in r177367 introduced a serious performance bug where
the "lazy" resolution of module file names in the global module index
to actual module file entries in the module manager would perform
repeated negative stats(). The new interaction requires the module
manager to inform the global module index when a module file has been
loaded, eliminating the extraneous stat()s and a bunch of bookkeeping
on both sides.