Refactor HandlerMethod support in spring-messaging

Introduce base class AbstractMethodMessageHandler for
HandlerMethod-based message handling.

Add MessageCondition interface for mapping conditions to messages
with support for combining type- and method-level annotation
conditions, the ability to match conditions to messages, and also
comparing matches to select the best match.

Issue: SPR-11024
Add support for WebSocket Protocol Extensions

This commits adds simple, overridable WebSocket Extension
filtering during the handshake phase and adds that
information in the WebSocket session.

The actual WebSocket Extension negotiation happens
within the server implementation (Glassfish, Jetty, Tomcat...),
so one can only remove requested extensions from
the list provided by the WebSocket client.

See RFC6455 Section 9.

Issue: SPR-10843