Use O_CLOEXEC when creating FDs

This is needed so that new processes (created with fork+exec) don't
inherit open files, which can be important for a number of reasons.

Since O_CLOEXEC is relatively new (POSIX.1-2008, before that Linux
specific), we #define it to 0 in io.h to prevent compilation errors on
older/crappy systems. At least this is the plan.

input.c creates a pipe. For that, add a mp_set_cloexec() function (which
is based on Weston's code in vo_wayland.c, but more correct). We could
use pipe2() instead, but that is Linux specific. Technically, we have a
race condition, but it won't matter.
Prevent creating zombies

The "run" input command does fork+exec to spawn child processes. But it
doesn't cleanup the child processes, so they are left as zombies until
mpv terminates. Leaving zombie processes around is not very nice, so
employ a simple trick to let pid 1 take care of this: we fork twice, and
when the first fork exits, the second fork becomes orphaned and becomes
pid 1's child. It becomes pid 1's responsibility to cleanup the process.
The advantage is that we don't need extra logic to cleanup the spawned
process, which could have an arbitrary lifetime.

This is e.g. described here: http://yarchive.net/comp/zombie_process.html

Also use _exit() instead of exit(). It's not really sane to run cleanup
handlers (atexit() etc.) inside a forked process.