dvdplayer: Allow multithread decoding for hi10p content by default

This allows decoding of some hi10p material on e.g. AMD Fusion with
both cores at the max. This introduces a new advancedsetting named
disablehi10pmultithreading to disable hi10p decoded multithreaded.

Same as the other one - but backport to frodo. So we have this in, when we park it for eternity.