customizable default action and flags for commands

Introduces the magit-command-defaults customization variable which
allows users to specify default flags for the pop-up command interface
and/or default actions to run without raising the pop-up command
interface at all.

See the documentation of magit-command-defaults for full usage
information.  The default value of magit-command-defaults adds this
"--graph" flag to the logging command, this kludge was originally
hard-coded into the magit-key-mode-generate function.

This commit retains the special handling of local diff options saved in
magit-diff-options.  Thanks to npostavs on github for pointing this out.