ISPN-3129 & ISPN-3130

ISPN-3129 If the status recovery fails for a cache, it stops recovery for all the caches
ISPN-3130 Cancelling an InboundTransferTask should be idempotent

https://issues.jboss.org/browse/ISPN-3129
https://issues.jboss.org/browse/ISPN-3130

There's also branch `t_3129_5` for 5.2.x