[RocksDB Performance Branch] Introduce MergeContext to Lazily Initialize merge operand list

Summary: In get operations, merge_operands is only used in few cases. Lazily initialize it can reduce average latency in some cases

Test Plan: make all check

Reviewers: haobo, kailiu, dhruba

Reviewed By: haobo

CC: igor, nkg-, leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D14415