merge revision(s) 39809,39834,39837: [Backport #8132]

	* test/win32ole/test_err_in_callback.rb
	  (TestErrInCallBack#test_err_in_callback): shouldn't create a file in
	  source directory.

	* test/win32ole/test_err_in_callback.rb (TestErrInCallBack#setup): use
	  relative path to get rid of "too long commandline" error.
	  the top of build directory.

	* test/win32ole/test_err_in_callback.rb (TestErrInCallBack#setup):
	  allow using different root for source and build directories.
	  this may fixes a minor problem of r39834.


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