MFC 254072:
Don't emit a spurious EVFILT_PROC event with no fflags set on process exit
if NOTE_EXIT is not being monitored.  The rationale is that a listener
should only get an event for exit() if they registered interest via
NOTE_EXIT.  This matches the behavior on OS X.
- Don't save the exit status on process exit unless NOTE_EXIT is being
  monitored.
- Add an internal EV_DROP flag that requests kqueue_scan() to free the
  knote without signalling it to userland and use this when a process
  exits but the fflags in the knote is zero.
MFC 254287: Some small cleanups to the fixes in r180340:
- Set NOTE_TRACKERR before running filt_proc().  If the knote did not
  have NOTE_FORK set in fflags when registered, then the TRACKERR event
  could miss being posted.
- Don't pass the pid in to filt_proc() for NOTE_FORK events.  The special
  handling for pids is done knote_fork() directly and no longer in
  filt_proc().
MFH: sync the picobsd build file with what is in head,
except for the MALLOC_PRODUCTION definition