make android --fast-reset the default and provide --full-reset for the other case
make --without-delay the default and provide --native-instruments-lib for the other case
make --verbose the default option and add --quiet for the other case
make our grunt commands conform to new parser spec
update bin.js with new defaults as well
update readme and docs with new parser args
Merge pull request #555 from jlipps/master

make --fast-reset and --without-delay the default