Update 20130504 1318

BUGS: message does not update in chatsmain, if you leave ongoingmessage
activity and reenter the send stops working, when sending a message in
newMessage activity if there is either no number or message the app
crashes and toast does not work, events in ongoing message crashes, all
back buttons crash the app, still doesnt access the contacts. I am sure
there is more, i am done with it so unless anyone else wants to fix the
bugs they will stay, if you have any questions on the databases please
ask or if you just need help ask.