reduce mpeg structure size on 64bit builds
report any invalid PE references being translated and what triggered them
prevent the odd (n effect on titles. NULL pointer issue
avoid infinite loop case, should be hard trigger but better to report and ignore it
a wake up of the on demand relay may of been ignore if the cross cpu sync up is not done

Only a lock will flush that so make sure it's done when checking for startup, the listeners
count needs to be correct in such cases
reorder initial stats link data, make all NEW commands appear first
avoid possible NULL deref
merge limits for stats link sends.

Some safety limiters to stop memory leaks, and threshold limits adjusted