Fix build: in a recent pf refactor (head@240233), pf_var.h was modified
to not include netinet/tcp_fsm.h, and HEAD tcpdump rely on this change
as the tcp_fsm.h will only be processed once.

Solve this by defining TCPSTATES earlier.  This wouldn't cause breakage
should pf be merged in the future.

Noticed by:	tinderbox via many
Pointy hat to:	delphij
MFC r252056:
Fix destroyed ZFS pools failing to import

MFC r252059:
Fix ZFS zpool freeze (debug command) not processing due to invalid ioctl call syntax.

MFC r252060:
Fix intermittent ZFS lock panic

MFC r252061:
Switch ZFS mutex_owner macro to use sx_xholder as its now exported via sx.h