win32 build issues

attempt to make --with-cairo=path_to_cairo work with the php win
configure system (still flakey, sigh) and make the win32 font stuff
build properly
And the missing recording/subsurface files as well

Make sure what you add to config.m4 you add to config.w32 grumble
Fix for issue #1 - stat stream

bug 61882 in PHP bugtracker - also fixes compiler warning (see I knew
those were important)
Other part of windows build issues

really need to restructure the config.32
Merge branch 'master' of github.com:gtkforphp/cairo