Fix for #3062 additional groups should only be added once.

Also consolidated duplicate groups code into one get_groups_set() method.
Removed unused call to user_group_membership.
Removed sorting operations on set functions cause sets are inherently unordered.
Minor style improvements to match the rest of the code.

The new function will make the order of group names passed to the system command less determistic.
Which was already the case for modify_user_usermod() but not for other methods.
It will also strip out duplicate group names automatically which was not always the case previously.