get remaining option types to work
fix test_of_type
- this is what has to happen to "default" strategies.  these aren't really
"defaults" anymore.
everything passing in orm except pickling
- seems like all tests passing
OK this one is everything, including that the "default" token e.g. joinedload('*') acts exactly
the same, when it is out at the front like that.  To specify wildcard on root entity it accepts
joinedload(".*").   this is a little weird but trying to keep backwards compat and also
triangulate on the use cases that will actually be needed