Update .gitignore

Netbeans can't put his nbproject dir outside of source.
added actions/alternate messages
added /me actions to toxic
Merge pull request #399 from ReAzem/patch-1

Update .gitignore
Merge pull request #400 from JFreegman/master

Added actions/alternative type of messages
Update CMakeLists.txt
Fix typo in function name which results in missing symbol
Merge pull request #402 from Astonex/patch-5

Update CMakeLists.txt
Merge pull request #403 from jin-eld/fix-friend-status-callback

Fix typo in function name which results in missing symbol
Rename core directory because of autoconf name clash

While doing the checks configure might generate "core" files and will
then try to remove them. Having a "core" directory generates an error
while runing the configure script.

There's no workaround but to rename the core directory.
Implemented autotools based build scripts

supported options:

--with-dependency-search=DIR    will tell configure to look for various
dependencies in DIR/include and DIR/lib

Alternatively you can also specify libsodium header and libs location
with --with-libsodium-headers and --with-libsodium-libs if it is
installed elsewhere.

Ncurses and libconfig is handled via the default pkg-config way, see
./configure --help=short for detailed information.

The cmake build still works.
Rename core directory because of autoconf name clash

While doing the checks configure might generate "core" files and will
then try to remove them. Having a "core" directory generates an error
while runing the configure script.

There's no workaround but to rename the core directory.
Compile and install tox core as a shared library

Right now only Messenger.h and network.h are installed as public
headers, I am not sure what the public API is but so far the toxic and
nTox clients seem to use onle these two.

This surely needs to be reviewed in the future. Also, CLIENT_ID_SIZE
define and the extern uint8_t self_public_key variable should probably
go to some common header.
Integrated unit tests into the build system

Availability of "check" library will be automatically tested by
configure, if the library is not available tests will not be build.

Further, an option to manually disable/enable compiling of unit tests is
provided: --enable-tests / --disable-tests

To compile and run the tests use:

make check