node: add use-shared-libraries option and remove openssl dependency

* Add `--use-shared-libraries` option
Shared v8, openssl and zlib cuts compilation time.

* Remove openssl dependency
openssl dependency was added with mxcl/homebrew@8d45d93048676ef171b8a39a053e739c770cf832 for version 0.4.8 but it's not needed since they are including openssl in their source code since version 0.5.4, commit: joyent/node@e80cac622569dda0f6753b452ba3e5085a9d09e5