bus: add cal to determine machine id of an owner of a service
units: update user@.service to reflect new user cgroup paths
unit: rework trigger dependency logic

Instead of having explicit type-specific callbacks that inform the
triggering unit when a triggered unit changes state, make this generic
so that state changes are forwarded betwee any triggered and triggering
unit.

Also, get rid of UnitRef references from automount, timer, path units,
to the units they trigger and rely exclsuively on UNIT_TRIGGER type
dendencies.
update TODO