API Data corruption on Versioned due to lazy loading

Lazy loading no longer loads fields from the versions table when querying. This could lead to incorrect data being displayed if the data on the object and the version it pointed to did not match.

API methods to allow setting of the context of the query that generated the DataObject on that object (used by the lazy loading mechanism to correctly query the Stage, Live, or Versions tables)

See https://github.com/silverstripe/sapphire/pull/1178 for context.