HPCC-9502 Option when spraying wildcards to fail if no matches

Add new boolean parameter called 'failIfNoSourceFile' with false default value to
 - SprayFixed()
 - SprayVariable()
 - SprayDelimited()
 - SprayXml()

functions.

Add new command line parameter with same name (failIfNoSourceFile) to Dfuplus too.

Extend DFUWorkUnit, SprayFixed and SprayVariable template structures with a new field (same name as the new parameter) into ws_fs.ecm to handle parameter passing from client side to server sides.

Signed-off-by: Attila Vamos <attila.vamos@gmail.com>