onDeath triggers by slay (onslay option to toggle), Shove command split, Targetmsg in Standby.mode.ignore, Correcting phase transitions, Nonflashing VR message

Targetmsg in daykill and expose mode.ignore
Delay slay if trying to slay during voting
Splitting of Shove and Slay command
Can only vote during /votetheme max of 3 times
Slay now triggers onDeath.
onslay to toggle above line on a role by role basis
Removed the flash from messages CC'd to VR.
Merge pull request #355 from Fuzzysqurl/master

onDeath triggers by slay (onslay option to toggle), Shove command split, Targetmsg in Standby.mode.ignore, Correcting phase transitions, Nonflashing VR message